Great Sex Begins in the Mind!

So that sounds a little creepy but give me a chance to explain. Hear me out here. Take a look through your Instagram and Facebook timeline, every nigga and every girl whether from the ghetto or uptown, high class, experienced or still a virgin. Everyone wants romance and want a connection with something non-physical. Yes! Of course we like to see women in very little clothes and men shirtless with rock hard abs and biceps and oooh that sweet love spot above his boxers. *calm down Imani* Whew! Ok. I’m back on cloud one.

What I am saying is that in the age of hook ups noone is telling you to fall in love with everyone you decide to have sex with, all I am saying is don’t just fuck. It aint worth it. Let me tell you something, sex is the perfect example of how delayed gratification can lead to rippling climaxes that bathe you with a glow and joy (actually just serotonin and dopamine) for hours. Tease yourself and your partner for as long as you can mentally hold out and boy you both will be singing “Glory Hallelujah” when you hit that peak. It will be like heavens opened up and started raining manna again. Like the hosts of angels have gathered above you guys just to sing an orchestra for the beautiful thing that just transpired. Oh yes! It’s that good. Fuck cloud 9, let me tell you how to level up. Cloud 9 is for kids. When you just had your first taste of the D. πŸ˜„πŸ˜„ (I swear if my family reads this, church can’t keep Sunday. I think I will be on the down low for a while, because I can already imagine all those awkward convos that everyone will want to have with me 😫)Β I digress. Bringing it back. Just a side note; I am a potential cyclothymic so I am on the milder end of the bipolar spectrum. That’s a whole other blog.

Anyho! What I meant by Great Sex Begins in the Mind now:

  • Even if you are just FWB and you are not attracted to the entire person, find one quality that you think is most attractive in the person, close your eyes and make love to that part of them. It’s not real so don’t worry, you won’t fall in love after the sex.


  • Whether we want to accept it or not, sex is an emotional and spiritual experience. Guard your heart. You must learn to compartmentalize. Don’t fuck him if you know you are down for him more than he is for you, AKA if you want a serious relationship and he just wants some sex. (and vice versa) Men are not immune to this.


  • If you didn’t realize you were more into him than you thought. And this happens:Instagram-Good-Dick-will-have-you-Caught-19b109-2.png

RUN!!! Lol. Run like a 200lb pit bull dog was after your ass. RUN I tell ya! That shit will fuck with your thoughts or as Jamaicans would say – mash up yuh medz.

Have a great day guys! Get a dildo or a sweet little bullet and stop walking around sex starved! Those frown lines will make you ugly. Orgasms can literally save lives! They a a good stress reliever and help to clear your mind.Β 

I swear, tha nigga who proposes will be the luckiest dude alive!! πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

Crown me β˜ΊοΈπŸ˜ŒπŸ‘‘πŸ‘ 

****Some call it conceited but I know the right word no worries ****




Published by Faith

I am human patiently accepting myself. I am unapologetic about being wild, and untamed. I am always open to new things and I only accept good vibe and positive energies. I love people and life and the world is my playground. I love children, animals and elderly people. I write to express and understand my thoughts, feeling and behaviors. It's self therapy and a visualization tool. I am a selfish loner at times a very sensitive INTJ. I am an aspiring psychological disorders and consumer behavior researcher and practitioner, living with Bipolar 1.

5 thoughts on “Great Sex Begins in the Mind!

  1. After 8 years of masterbating, I finally quit about a month ago, I quit cause I wanted to prove to myself and God, that I could and that I have quit masterbating for good. It slightly feels away that other people going start choking the life outta their rabbits after reading your blog, but then again, it’s their rabbits.

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    1. Aha! You got it! It’s their rabbits. I have been masturbating for 17 years. I love being stimulated. It was only after I discovered why I masturbate that I realized that I don’t need to. It was really self therapy, how I escaped my world when it got too crazy, my tension and stress reliever. Now, I am focusing on being stimulated in other ways (through exercise, writing, reading and through networking), essentially to focus that energy into other productive activities and to pray God sends me an equal partner so someone else can do the stimulating for once πŸ˜„


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