Being Single is no Fun (Forever)



you get to be Ms. Independent

Do whatever you want whenever you want

Make decisions that benefit only you,

You get to be your #1 priority all the time

Spend lavishly on yourself

No compromising

Treat yo self! πŸ’†πŸ½πŸŒΉπŸ’…πŸΎ

And pop on a dress and heels and go fly when you please.

But, what most women and people don’t want to admit is that

It’s no fun all the time


As in, I don’t want to carry my own groceries

So what if I am strong enough?

It’s no fun opening my own doors even if I got two free hands

It’s no fun buying my own movie tickets to sit in the theatre sobbing all alone

It’s no fun buying my own lunch to eat ALONE,

No matter how delish the food is! ( and y’all know I loove food 😝)

The thing is, our girlfriends do get all grown up

And they got their own lives

Doing there own Β shit

No one is available 90% of the time

And even when I do get a dog he won’t be able to come to the movies or the food court 😟😟

It’s no fun really. And I aint gonna put on a show.


Strong women need a man too…

But, if only we had the tolerance for bullshit

Or weak ass dependent men

If only we could go out with a brother who expects us to pay for our own meal

If only we could tolerate a poorly dressed brother

Boy, there are a whole lot of those fishes in the sea

But naw! A sister needs more and unfortunately


She won’t settle

No matter how many more meals she’ll have to eat alone

I’d much rather to treat a random stranger to dinner

Than to go out with a brother and pay my own taxi fare. β›”οΈπŸ’ΈπŸš–

After all, I love stories and every stranger has a new story to tell

I love kids, and there are a dozen homes I can volunteer at πŸ‘§πŸ½πŸ‘¦πŸ½

Seniors got a lot of wisdom to impart πŸ‘΄πŸ½πŸ‘΅πŸ½

And I’ll go sit with them, feed them, groom their hair and whatnot

And learn a thing or two in the process.

I can even go and play with the cuties at the animal shelter, πŸ©πŸ•πŸ₯πŸ’πŸˆπŸŽ

Now that’s fun right there 😻😺

That’s how you live a fulfilling single life,Β 

Not by focusing all your energies on you

But by giving all your energies to life

And those who need the strength you got πŸ’ͺ

By sharing smiles πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜„πŸ˜€

And random meals

By dropping by and sharing the love you have to give.


It’s just a little sad that…







Published by Faith

I am human patiently accepting myself. I am unapologetic about being wild, and untamed. I am always open to new things and I only accept good vibe and positive energies. I love people and life and the world is my playground. I love children, animals and elderly people. I write to express and understand my thoughts, feeling and behaviors. It's self therapy and a visualization tool. I am a selfish loner at times a very sensitive INTJ. I am an aspiring psychological disorders and consumer behavior researcher and practitioner, living with Bipolar 1.

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